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My Maharat Life

I am a future Maharat. I am a wife and a mother. A sister and a daughter. A friend. A social worker. A writer. I am a lover of Torah and Judaism. Of Jews and the Jewish community. I am learning Isur v’Heter and Orach Chayim. I am learning Masechet...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Nov 5, 2015

Reflections and Gratitude

As those of you who have been reading our blog for some time know, we have all had pretty winding journeys. While we haven’t been nearly as prolific as we once were, this blog has been a great source of support on these journeys, and its still...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on May 5, 2015

Its my birthday and I’ll blog if I want to

I've started to write a few blogs recently, but feel like its weird to just dive back in after my hiatus without saying hello and giving some closure. So, I figured what better day than my 32nd birthday to do just that!
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Oct 5, 2014

Its my birthday and I’ll blog if I want to

I've started to write a few blogs recently, but feel like its weird to just dive back in after my hiatus without saying hello and giving some closure. So, I figured what better day than my 32nd birthday to do just that!
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Oct 5, 2014

Continually opting in to Orthodoxy

There has been a lot of talk online over the past few months about Orthodox Feminism – ranging from how it is not possible, to how oppressed we are, to why we stay Orthodox. The posts on the latter topic seem to come mostly from women who grew...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Apr 6, 2014

Continually opting in to Orthodoxy

There has been a lot of talk online over the past few months about Orthodox Feminism – ranging from how it is not possible, to how oppressed we are, to why we stay Orthodox. The posts on the latter topic seem to come mostly from women who grew...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Apr 6, 2014

One of Four, but All for One

I had the distinct honor to be at the kotel for Rosh Chodesh Sivan. At least, that is what I believed as I left my house that morning and wrote this on Facebook: I believe that prayer is a communal mitzvah. I believe that Rosh Chodesh is a special t...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on May 13, 2013

One of Four, but All for One

I had the distinct honor to be at the kotel for Rosh Chodesh Sivan. At least, that is what I believed as I left my house that morning and wrote this on Facebook: I believe that prayer is a communal mitzvah. I believe that Rosh Chodesh is a special t...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on May 13, 2013

“New” versus “Groundbreaking”

The Times of Israel recently posted a beautiful article about the upcoming Maharat graduates (we posted the article to the RR facebook – it’s here, if you’re interested). It takes the time to profile each of the graduates and talks a little abo...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on May 1, 2013

“New” versus “Groundbreaking”

The Times of Israel recently posted a beautiful article about the upcoming Maharat graduates (we posted the article to the RR facebook – it’s here, if you’re interested). It takes the time to profile each of the graduates and talks a little abo...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on May 1, 2013

Leaping forward or left in the dust…

I have had many questions recently about my feelings about the proposed and so-called “Sharansky Plan” to fix the issues of davening spaces at the kotel and to make it more accessible to all Jews. I’ve been hesitant to share what I...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Apr 21, 2013

Melissa is a Wrap Star!

One of our new favorite blogs is Wrapunzel – a great resource for hair covering ideas and inspiration, and one of the regular features is interviews and photos of women who cover in different ways. I was honored to be interviewed and featured a...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Apr 10, 2013

#AtoZ: F - Favorite Son

  Happy birthday to Daniel, my favorite son. Listen up, ladies. Have I got the guy for you. He's smart, good looking, and single. Since today is my son's twenty-fifth birthday, it's time to find him a wife. Don't get me wrong, it's not l...
by Catch My Words on Apr 6, 2013

Which identity has the most influence?

How do you define your identity?  Does your feminism influence your Judaism, or does your Judaism influence your feminism? These questions were posed by one of my mentors here in Jerusalem at a Shabbat lunch with a group of young women who are all t...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Mar 6, 2013

A Rebbetzin is not a Rabbi

I have been involved in a few conversations lately about a topic that really agitates me, so when I saw the premise used to prove the exact opposite, I simply couldn’t not say my piece publicly any longer. A Rebbetzin is not a female Rabbi. Sor...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Mar 3, 2013

Headbands to Headscarves

As of this month, I have been covering my head in some fashion for five years! Those of you who have been paying attention are surely thinking “wait, Melissa hasn’t been married that long!” – and you are correct. Head covering...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Jan 27, 2013

Advice Five (Plus) Years In

In honor of a friend’s engagement (mazal tov!), I decided to write a post that I have been thinking about for ages, even before our five year anniversary. That’s right, R and I have been married for five years (and 4 months), and it’...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Jan 14, 2013

Well wishes….

I recently had a dream that I wished someone mazal tov upon hearing that they were pregnant and she responded with “Isn’t it traditional to say b’saah tova?” This stuck with me. Even in my dream state where I knew the “...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Dec 4, 2012

Orthodox Feminist: Not an oxymoron

If you Google Orthodox Feminism, or some derivative there-of you will be initially greeted by JOFA, but after that things get dicey. For some reason, even amongst many modern women, the idea of feminism and orthodoxy appears to be an oxymoron. I kn...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Oct 29, 2012

Rebbetzin vs Rabbanit

I first heard the term rabbanit about a year ago, and always had the impression it was the Hebrew equivalent of rebbetzin, which is Yiddish. However, a recent conversation in the Midrasha showed me another viewpoint…. One of my classmates said...
by Redefining Rebbetzin on Oct 21, 2012


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